Self
injury is most likely far more common than most people think. Famous people
such as Angelina Jolie, Johnny Depp, and Princess Diana have publicly admitted
to engaging in self injury. 3
Currently there are no Canadian statistics, but American studies
suggest that up to 1% of people self-injure, with a higher rate of females
than males. In Canada, that could be up to 300,000 people or twice the population
of Prince Edward Island. 4
This statistic is higher in reality, but due to the shameful
and secretive nature of self injury, many will never come forward, or receive
treatment.
While there is no one type of person who can be defined as
a self injurer, many who do self injure share some similar characteristics.
Some common characteristics of people who self injure can include:
- strongly dislike themselves
- frequently invalidate
themselves
- are hypersensitive
to rejection
- are chronically angry,
usually at themselves
- tend to suppress their
anger
- have high levels of
aggressive feelings, which they disapprove of strongly and often suppress
or direct inward
- are more impulsive
and more lacking in impulse control
- tend to act in accordance
with their mood of the moment tend not to plan for the future
- are depressed and suicidal/self-destructive
- suffer chronic anxiety
- tend toward irritability
- do not see themselves
as skilled at coping
- do not have a flexible
repertoire of coping skills
- do not think they have
much control over how/whether they cope with life
- tend to be avoidant
- do not see themselves
as empowered
- not able to regulate
their emotions well 5
Self injury typically
starts during puberty or adolescence, and typically lasts 5-10 years, or longer
if left untreated.